I have had to keep this news secret for SO long. I am thrilled to finally share that my 13th novel (lucky, right?), ONCE AND FOR ALL, with be out in summer 2017. I can’t wait for you guys to read it!
Read the official announcement in PW here: http://www.publishersweekly.com/pw/by-topic/industry-news/book-deals/article/71244-book-deals-week-of-august-22-2016.html.
I know I’ve been MIA from this blog and, well, everything for awhile. I was working HARD writing this book from January to May and then immediately started editing with the wonderful Regina Hayes at Viking Children’s Books. I can’t wait to tell you more about it in the coming weeks as well as share a cover! So stay tuned. And now, back to enjoying summer while it lasts…..
SO excited to announce my first public event in, well, ages. (I’ve been writing! So I have a good excuse!) Come see me in at the Barnes and Noble at Clifton Commons in Clifton, NJ! I’ll be the one talking WAAY too much because I haven’t been out in public in awhile. Hope to see you there!
At the end of August, I decided it was time to start my next book. It had been a few months since Saint Anything came out, and the promotion side of things was winding down. Moreover, it had been a year and a half since I finished writing that book. Normally, I would have started a new project somewhere in that 18 months, worked myself into a fit when it wasn’t working, and abandon it. I know my history and my cycles. So I decided I would Wait Until I Was Ready.But then, my kid went back to school. The summer ended. Everywhere around me there were fresh starts, sharpened pencils and empty, brand new notebooks. It felt like the whole world was writing, except for me. (By The Whole World, I mean everyone I follow on Twitter. The hashtag #amwriting is a powerful thing, especially when you, um, aren’t.) I had a nugget of an idea that I thought I could stretch into my skeleton (first line, first scene, climactic scene, final scene). I was ready. Right?I knew I was doomed the moment I tried to start the second scene, around page 3. I just felt tired. Was already dreading having to do backstory. Writing the simplest of sentences was like trying to brain surgery. Blindfolded. UGH. UGH. There are not enough UGHS to convey this feeling. You’ll just have to take my word for it.I have been here before. I was here with the book I set aside before I wrote Saint Anything. It is very familiar, in the way that places you dislike and dread can be. But the upside is that when I find myself back here, the landmarks becoming familiar, I have FINALLY learned to stop, turn around and get out. This is progress. I used to finish books that weren’t working, then send them to my agent, who would tell me what I already knew in my heart and had for awhile (”This is not your next book. I’m sorry.”). That’s a lot of time wasted, a lot of miserable days. The older I get, the less I enjoy being miserable. Better to accept things aren’t working on page 15, as I did yesterday, than on page 415.
So here I am. #notwriting. UGH. But honestly, I feel a sense of weird relief, as well. I don’t have to sit down and suffer today: I just don’t. I’ve published 12 books, and the most recent one, I think, is one of my best. If it’s the laurels I’m resting on for awhile, I’m okay with that. I hope my readers are, as well. Hopefully the right idea will come, and I’ll know the moment to begin it. For now, though, this is where I am. And I just don’t want to be sad every afternoon anymore.
(Note: it should be said that writing this little blog post, these few paragraphs, flowed more easily than anything I’d done on that book. Pretty telling…..)
..is that you don’t want to admit that you did, or assume it, even if you know it’s true. Like doing so will put them at risk again, because who the hell are you?
But I’m getting ahead of myself.
This time two days ago, I was on vacation in Cape Cod with my extended family. My parents have a house outside Falmouth and I’ve gone pretty much every summer of my life, first as a kid, now with my own family. It was our last day, our last afternoon, and my daughter really wanted to go for a final swim even though it was overcast and I’d already packed our swimsuits. I was totally not into it and tried to convince her to do something else, but the whining got to me and we went down to the beach, with my cousin’s daughter in tow.
When we got there, two of my aunts were already seated in beach chairs, getting ready for their daily swim, which they call The Ladies Swim. It’s another one of those longtime traditions, women of a certain age (now in their seventies) meeting for gossip and exercise together in the late afternoon. We chatted about how I was leaving the next day as the girls played in the sand, and then I got into the water to swim. A few minutes later, they headed out on their normal route.
It was still cloudly, but the water was nice, and I was thinking I was actually kind of glad I’d gotten dragged to the beach, even if my own kid was now whining she was cold and wanted to stay on the shore. I kept swimming around, about ten feet from the sand, alternately watching the kids and keeping an eye on my aunts, because we just do that there whenever anyone is swimming in the water.
After about fifteen minutes, I could see them headed back in: P. was in front, N. behind. I looked back at the kids, answered my own child when she shouted a question at me. Then I looked again out the in the water. I saw N. P was gone.
At first, I figured I just couldn’t see her. There were a few boats on moorings between us, and I assumed she was probably behind one of them. But I stood up anyway. When I did, I heard N yell, “P? Are you all right?”
I looked back at the girls. Still on the beach. Then I finally spotted P, or actually the slope of her back. She was facedown in the water, only that and some of her hair visible. N looked at me. “Sarah, she’s not swimming anymore!” I dove back in the water and started towards them.
I’ve been swimming all my life: I learned in those same waters, on that same beach. But I don’t have a great form by any means. Still, I hauled ass out there. N and I got to P at the same time. I grabbed her and rolled her over, so her face was out of the water. She was blue. I yelled her name. No response. Again. Nothing. Then I hooked my arm around her, making sure her face was turned up, and started towards shore.
My daughter and her cousin were still playing, obvlivious. I screamed at them to run for my husband and tell him to call 911. They took off, and I kept swimming, N. beside me, pushing P along. She was unresponsive, but I was talking to her, telling her I was there, it was going to be okay. We were about 70 feet out, and finally I felt my feet hit the ground. We dragged P up on the beach. She was still blue.
I have never taken a CPR class, only read a book about it. Everything I know about water rescue I learned from Baywatch. I am dead serious. But we were the only ones there and I knew I had to act. So I opened her mouth and breathed in, hard. Then I pumped on her chest, trying to remember how many times I was supposed to do it. Nothing. Another breath. More pumps. I looked up at the beach path, praying i’d see my husband or someone else who could handle this coming. No one. I breathed in again, then heard a soft gurgle. I rolled P on her side, and I saw her hand reach out to N’s leg to touch it. Oh my God.
Another gurgle. She was responding. I put my hand on her back and told her me and N were there, it was okay. She moaned, still reaching for N, who took her hand. Then, finally, I heard footsteps. My husband. An ambulance was on the way.
The next half hour is a blur. I remember leaving them there, running as fast as I have in recent memory to P’s house to scream for her husband and tell him what happened. Standing barefoot in my dripping bathing suit on our dirt road, waiting for the ambulance. The terrified look on my daughter’s face when I finally found her, and trying not to look scared to her. Following a paramedic down to the beach, saying, “I don’t even know CPR really,” and him saying, “Anything helps, and clearly you did.” Seeing P sitting up in a beach chair on the shore’s edge, shivering, her husband beside her as the medic strapped on an oxygen mask. Did she know where she was? he asked. The beach. What day is it? Monday.
When they’d taken her up to the ambulance, my aunt N and just stood there on the sand. The sun had come out: it was a gorgeous day, suddenly. We couldn’t stop talking, either one of us, about what had happened. I told her we were bonded for life now, and she laughed. It was good to laugh, finally. Then I went home, where my daughter and her cousin were watching Dora and Friends and eating Pirate Booty. Is P okay? they asked. I think so, I told them. They nodded, returned to their program.
I went into our bedroom. We had dinner plans, things to do, and I told my husband I’d take a shower and then get stuff together. “Really?” he said. “You don’t even want to take a moment after that? You saved her life.”
I shook my head. “I don’t even really know CPR or mouth to mouth,” I said. “I just wish someone else who knew what they were doing had been around.”
“You DID know what to do,” he said. Then he gave me a hug. “I’m proud of you.”
That was the first time I felt it. That weird disconnect, feeling like I shouldn’t take credit for something so big, much bigger than me. I was there, I did what I could. But it all felt very fragile, like if I even talked about it too much she’d be back in the water, facedown, punishment for making it about me. I honestly still feel weird, two days later, sitting here at my home in NC, writing this. Which also feels strange, and like I’m making it my story, not hers. But writing is how i deal with my world. I needed this, even if I don’t post it. Maybe it will take that image of her face when I first rolled her over in the water, blue and dead-looking, out of my mind each time I close my eyes. P is okay. She’s in the hospital, probably released in next couple of days, and that’s how I want to think of her. I am hopeful time will make it happen. I am good at revising, both on and off the page. If I can, I will clip that image, delete it, forget. But I will also take that CPR class I’ve been putting off forever. Because you never know.
Okay, so it’s late June, the holiday weekend is approaching, and of course that has me thinking about food. (Everything makes me think about food, though.) That aside, I was tweeting the other day about my bean salad recipe, and someone asked for it. So I figured I will share it here on this page, where it can live in perpetuity.
I got this recipe from the Food section of my local paper, The News and Observer, many years ago. It quickly became my go-to recipe for cookouts, potlucks, family events and just about any other occasion where I am asked to bring something. It has all the hallmarks of a great recipe: it’s easy, has only a few ingredients, makes a bunch and you can do it at the last minute. (Although it’s better if you let it sit a few hours, or even overnight.) WIN!
Here’s what you need:
A can of black beans
A can of kidney beans (dark or light red, you pick!)
A can of Fiesta corn (once called Mexicorn, i.e. corn with peppers mixed in)
Open all cans, pour them into a strainer. Rinse. Dump into a big bowl. You’re halfway done! Wasn’t that easy? I KNOW!
Okay, now onto the marinade:
3 Tablespoons Olive Oil
3 Tablespoons Red Wine Vinegar (okay, you might have to make a trip for this, but you’ll be making this so much in future you’ll use it up, I swear)
1/2 teaspoon of garlic powder
1/2 teaspoon of cumin (Okay, these two are an investment too, but you’ll use them!)
1/4 teaspoon of pepper
1/4 teaspoon of salt
Whisk all together. Pour over bean/corn mix. Toss. If you WANT you can add some chopped green onions (if you’re feeling fancy) or if you are lazy like me, some dried minced onion. Or leave it out. It’s totally up to you! Put in a container, cover, and stick in the fridge, ideally for a few hours, although you can serve it right away or after an hour or whatever.
See, wasn’t that easy??? I KNOW. This is why it is my go-to. Take it to wherever you’re invited, watch people enjoy and be prepared to pass the recipe on. Lazy cooks (or thrower-togethers of beans, corn and marinades) unite!
Happy summer, everyone!
All ready to go!!
(Warning: possible spoilers ahead! I say possible because I have never been a person who had not read the book. Which is a weird thing to realize. But I digress….)
1. Before I wrote Saint Anything, I was working on another book that was a total disaster. The story wasn’t there, the male character had ZERO personality, and I wanted to cry every time I opened the document. NOT GOOD SIGNS, y’all! So I set it aside. (You can read the entire story about that experience here.) When I got the idea for Saint Anything, though, I felt so bad for the girl in that other book that I wanted her to get on the page SOMEHOW. So I put her ex-boyfriend, a character I kind of loved because he was such a blowhard, in the book, as well as her dad. During a scene at Sydney’s house, her brother’s lawyer mentions his daughter Isley. That’s my girl, the one whose story I couldn’t finish. I still feel bad about it. But at least I got her in a published book.
2. The idea for the carousel in the woods came from two places. One was my daughter and her BFF tromping around in the woods behind our house, where they discovered the remnants of an old homestead and a bunch of rusted out cars. I loved that idea of finding something out in the middle of nowhere and kind of claiming it as your own.
The other was a public radio story I heard about a similar thing for a bunch of kids in Ann Arbor. It was called “Heyoon.” You can listen to it here.
3. One of the hardest part of the book was writing the scenes with Sydney and Ames. Gayle Forman said she thinks he’s my first real villian, but for me, it was more complicated than that. I went though a situation in high school where I was friends with an older guy and got in over my head. I was uncomfortable with his attention, but felt like it was rude to say so, or that it might disrupt my friend circle if I spoke up about how I felt. For years I’ve worked through this many ways, but it took until my forties until I was ready to put down words about it. I wrote about what happened in this piece for Seventeen.com that came out the same day the book went on sale. Now, pub day is stressful enough, in good and bad ways. But then I found myself in an LA hotel room, with this very personal part of my life suddenly out there for everyone to read. I mean, I’d written it: it was my choice. But the truth is tougher than fiction, in this case. I’m proud of the piece and honored so many people have related to it. But I’ll never read it, or any scene with Ames, without feeling that same unease. It’s just part of me now.
4. The storyline with Rosie, Layla’s sister, came completely from my first time going to Disney on Ice. I was so intrigued with cast members, wondering what kind of path you took to get a job like that. Did they have Olympic hopes? Or was this what they were always aiming for? I was completely overthinking things (as I tend to do) and I certainly wasn’t assuming THOSE ice skaters had drug problems or had been under house arrest. But clearly, this is where my mind goes after a few hours of Disney songs and a lot of convention center popcorn. Related: I love my job.
5. A lot of people have commented about how much food there is in Saint Anything. I guess I was hungry? It was winter, I was writing: I’m sure I was, actually. The lollipops, though, became a bit of a superstitious thing for me. (Everything can be a superstitious thing for me: I am very suggestible.) See, they give Dum Dums away at my bank. Free candy! What’s not to love about that? Anyway, during the writing process when I was feeling unsure/scared (basically every day, that’s how I work) and I’d find myself in the bank, I’d think, “If I can find a bubble gum and a root beer Dum Dum, it means I’ll finish this book and it will be good.” Cut to me spending WAY too much time picking through their supply, desperate, while other patrons looked at me like I was crazy. Writing is such an unsure thing: I am always looking for something to reassure me. I am still doing this, weeks after the book is out. Needless to say, I have a LOT of root beer and and bubble gum Dum Dums. Which is not a bad problem to have, I guess.
Anyway, that’s five things. Thanks again to everyone who has read the book, said kind things, posted pictures of themselves reading it at the beach, lake, in a hammock, everywhere. I wish I could buy you all some Dum Dums. Really.